By Elliot Doomes, October 10, 2019 — My life seems like I’m on a merry-go-round. Maybe it’s the circles that I travel in, but I seem to be meeting the same people everywhere I go. They seem to aspire to the same things but are doing nothing to achieve those goals and aspirations. Mostly, they describe what they want and aspire to what they want and neglect what they need. “Gimme, gimme, gimme, can you let me have.” That’s what I hear the most. And its embarrassing to me to have able-bodied people whose means are equal or greater than my own and their financial situation is either equal to mine or better.
Some people don’t seem to think I need my cane and I walk up and down the stairs without it. And then, because of my vision, most of the time I use my cane for distance so I don’t bump into things.
I did walk into that door downstairs one day. That automatic door closed on my left side before I went through and I didn’t see it coming and it smacked me in the face.
It seems that the people that I meet have so many problems and some have exaggerated problems. And they try to involve me as if I have a solution to their problems. Sometimes I offer advice, even unwillingly, although unwillingly. If I could just make up my mind, say what may seem cruel, “It’s your problem. Not mine. Deal with it!” I am not smarter than they are and if I had a solution, so do they also.
I have learned not to take nothing and make it something that it ain’t.